Oh boy. I do. Sometimes, anyway.

Dame Helena Morrissey sounds like she knows how it is, too. She addressed London Business School at their Women in Business conference and talked about 'diversity fatigue' – a tiredness suffered by (no doubt privileged) people who are sick of hearing about diversity, given that we have made such slow progress. Not enough instant gratification in this game!

As the world moves more and more quickly, I can see why people would want to see results. Put in some changes in Q1, see the results by Q3, right? But that's not how it works when we are trying to tackle issues of inequality that have been embedded in our society and ourselves for centuries. 

So how do you remain tireless in the face of a project that only moves forward in baby steps?

You have to stay positive. Think how far we come. Think what we stand to gain. Think what it really costs to keep up with the work. 

So, where have we come from? Remember...

  • Women's suffrage was only granted just over 100 years ago in the UK, and even then was not extended to everyone. That's a LOT of years before then with no votes for women.
  • Same-sex marriage was achieved in 2013. I have cans of chickpeas older than this!
  • The first four black Members of Parliament to the House of Commons were elected in 1987. So, there was a time IN MY LIFETIME when there had NEVER been a black Parliamentarian, ever.
  • In 2004, the legal requirement to make reasonable adjustments to make buildings accessible came into effect. So before then, wheelchair users just had to... not go there?

That's a lot of achievement in our lifetimes, even in recent history. Huge societal shifts. 

And there are lots more accomplishments we can count, whenever it starts to feel impossible. We are making great strides in this generation, building on the work of previous generations. This is part of what we need to remember too – this work will not be 'complete' in our lifetime, if we can ever even consider the idea that complete equality is achievable. It's worth taking on the idea of passing the torch. 

What do we stand to gain? 

Look how recently we have gained new equalities. Abortion rights in Ireland in 2018, a ban on upskirting passed in 2019 – we do actually rumble forward, chipping away at the things that keep rights from the people who need them. Countless studies have shown the business benefits of diversity: 

  • Better product design when you build diversity into the design process
  • Better financial results for businesses with more ethnic diversity at board level
  • Better attendance, compliance and lower financial crime rates when there are more women at board level

And frankly, although McKinsey might not have measured it, the greatest prize of all is to know that you are working for, and have the potential to live in, a progressive society where all humans get a decent shot at bettering themselves and being happy.

And what does it really cost us?

When people give me that eye roll, clearly bored that they have to keep hearing me flag inequalities, I put it straight back to them – if discrimination stopped happening, I wouldn't have to keep bringing it up, now would I? Imagine how much more annoying it is for people who do not have access to opportunity because society shows them a locked door? For people who have to contend with others making dismissive comments, trying to touch their hair, talking to them in a childlike voice because they're in a wheelchair, or touching their bodies – let alone passing them over for a job because they don't seem like a good 'cultural fit'? That's a lot more tiring than having to listen to one more comment that calls people out when they're not being fair.

When I consider the daily commitment on the part of all the people I know, who work for inclusion and for a better society, I think they would certainly say they could endure an eye roll if that's the cost of speaking up. 

Eye roll? Ignore it. Eyes back on the prize.